A New Reality

A couple of blog posts ago I wrote about change and how I am okay with it, especially when it does not involve me. You can read it here if you are interested. Lately I have discovered that this new life that Sondra and I are leading is just that - change. But "the more things change the more they stay the same" , as the old saying goes. This transition in our lives is really, really good. It is strange and weird and we have by no means transitioned completely, but I am discovering some things I had not anticipated. I have more focused "free" time - our evenings are not filled with ball games, practices, etc. that centered around the girls' activities I have fallen more in love with Sondra. At the risk of sounding sappy, I knew all along how incredible of a wife and mom she is, but with more time not filled with activity, I find myself just longing to spend more time with her We have more time for one another. Heck, we even played backgammon the other nigh...